The Shock When You Realize Your True Character

I’ve talking to a longtime Scorpio client; she has Capricorn moon.  We’ve getting into it, deeply, since 2016.  She’s far more aware of my story, than most.  This allows us to pin astrology to real events and experiences in either of our lives.

We both highly value, relationships and deeper conversation. Today, we were talking about discovering our true nature over the years, to the end of discerning our true purpose.

My client was exposed to people who maintained good partnerships or marriages, both in her family and otherwise. She asked me about people I may have met, who set an example for me. Um… that never happened! I explained, my husband had to teach me. “I was surprised at who I really am,” I added.

When I was a child, all I wanted to do was, get to town!  I’d have never dreamed I actually belong on the fringe!

I’ve touched on this topic before, from a more negative perspective:

8th House: Facing Your Own Horrifying Disposition

I want to get deeper into this now, specifically because people are slowly becoming more and more isolated. I’m pretty sure there are many things you’ll never learn about yourself, without interaction.  This is especially true if you replace socialization with technology as all you’ll see is what you want to see!

One of the most important things I’ve learned from my husband, is that nobody is perfect. I know that’s a platitude, but if you really think about it, you realize, you are “people” too!

Years ago, I wrote about how important it is to realize, when you’re putting up with someone, they’re having to do the same with you! It’s something I  never forget.

What have you learned from interacting, that you may not have learned any other way? Have you ever uncovered something about your character, that would surprise your younger self?